Thursday, June 25, 2020

Stewart Letter #22

My brother, Stewart, passed away on January 23, 2013, at age 85. I can't believe it has been over seven years! It feels like a short time ago. I'm publishing Letter #22 today, a few days earlier than it was written, because today is his birthday, and he was in  the hospital in Brookings, SD with pneumonia on his eighteenth birthday - see note #2.  Eighteen was an important birthday because it marked his eligibility for entry into the army proper. Later in the summer, he will leave Brookings for Fort Leavenworth, and then Camp Fannin, TX, where he will enter Basic Training. But by then, the war will be over!
                                                                 
                                                                    LETTER #22

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29 June, 1945

Dear Mother,

            I  have been in the Brookings  Municipal Hospital since 19 June now, and Dr. Miller says  that I can get out the 2nd of July (next Monday).  My temperature was  103.4  until afternoon of 21 June, when it rose to 104. Then it started to come down slowly until it was normal this morning.  Rev. Tennis (Lennis?), pastor of the 1st Pres. Church, where I sing in the choir, has visited me three times. Mr. Hubbard, the Red Cross man, visits two or three times each day, bringing books, candy, gum, or ice cream. He furnished this stationery also. The only things I regret are missing the chance to go home, and missing so much work.  Now I will have to work hard all the time and every weekend until the end of the term, because I would not want to have to stay here on furlough time making up work. I have not been alone, for two other AST boys had the same ailment and were placed in my room.  One left 26 June, and the other left today.  The weather has been beautiful ever since I became sick, which seems rather ironical.

            The "This Is the Infantry" show[1] stopped here, and most of the company marched to the college football field, where the exhibition was held. Each of the men participating in it has been overseas at least two years. While they were here they stayed in our barracks, and their trucks were parked in front.  It really began to look like a military establishment.

            The hospital is right across the street from the barracks, so the corporal, and sometimes Lt. Coppock comes over every once in a while to see the men in the hospital. The service here is very different from a military hospital, of course.  Since there are not
                                                           
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as many patients, the nurses can do much more for each patient. I've never had so many backrubs in my life before.

            I feel pretty good, but I do feel that I will be weak for several weeks to come.  However, the doctor will not send me back to classes right away when I go back to the barracks. I will be in quarters for a while, and then I shall go to classes, but not to P.T. and military training.[2]

            Incidentally, the day the day before I went to the hospital, I went through an obstacle course in a military class. It's a very good  course, and should help prepare us for basic. About two weeks ago we ran three miles on country roads for P.T. My wind is still rather undeveloped, partly because of my inactivity when my leg was broken.

            We lost Dr. Scott, our geog prof, because he goes to school every three summers, and this summer he is going to the U.of M., so I would like to get in touch with him when I come home July 28th. I also want to get an appointment  at the dental clinic, because I'm getting tired of eating on one side all the time.

            Don't work too hard yourself so that you can keep up your resistance. Don't worry about me, because I'm getting well.

                                                                        Your loving son,
                                                                                    Stewart

                    
First Presbyterian Church,  Brookings, SD, where Stewart says he sang in the choir



[1] I haven't been able to find anything definite online about this. I can't tell if it was a stage production or some kind of exhibition. There is a video in the National Archives with this title which gives a history of the U.S. Army Infantry, but I have no idea if there is any connection between the two. 

[2] Stewart talked about this period of this life in the taped conversations I had with him - revealing that his illness was more serious than he was letting on to mother:

             While I was there in South Dakota, I was hospitalized with pneumonia. If I hadn't been in the service, in all likelihood I would have died, because they could not get my fever down with alcohol rubs and they didn't have penicillin in that hospital because it wasn't available yet to civilians, and that was a civilian hospital. But because I was in the service, after nine days of my wasting away with this fever, they finally got some penicillin into me and in two days I was over it. But I was so weak after all that I could barely walk across the street to my dorm. So they didn't require me to go back to class for a whole week, until I got my strength back, and I didn't have to take P.E. for two weeks. When I got back to class there were only three weeks left in the quarter and I had missed three weeks. But since I had already taken that quarter, it wasn't too bad. So I finished on July 28th, and then I had a furlough before going on active duty--I had reached my eighteenth birthday during that quarter (the rule was that you went on active duty at the end of the quarter in which you reached your eighteenth birthday; they didn't pull you out of school just because you had turned eighteen. I was actually in the hospital on my eighteenth birthday).

Tuesday, June 23, 2020

Happy Anniversary!/Happy Birthday!

Friday, in addition to being Juneteenth, was our fifteenth wedding anniversary. We didn’t make a big deal of it, but we knew Maggie & Jerry were  having cake in our honor, so we got a little cake at Grandma Miller’s - tiramisu to be precise - and we had that on the deck after supper. It was a beautiful evening.  We also celebrated with weak gin and tonics.


Our anniversary tiramisu cake
But then, Monday was Max’s 18th Birthday! The Feinland‘s had been on Martha’s Vineyard for a week’s vacation. They returned home Monday afternoon, so Ellen prepared a supper and a birthday cake for Max and we met them at their home in Northampton and had a birthday party in the backyard. There was plenty of room to observe proper social distancing, and  we ended up having a really nice visit. We heard all about their time on Martha’s Vineyard, and for the most part it was good. Max told an amazing story about jumping into about 20 feet of ocean water and forgetting that he was wearing his hearing aids. When he surfaced they were gone. But there were some boys playing in the water nearby, and when they heard what had happened, they said “We will find them!” And by golly, they did! They actually dove down 20 feet and found them on the floor of the ocean. Max said he thanked them profusely, but it was just a game to them. They literally saved Max thousands of dollars!


The Feinland kids - sorry Max, I caught you at an awkward moment!

Max's birthday cake

And oh yes, today, June 24th, would have been Betsey’s 62nd birthday. Happy birthday my darling daughter -  I miss you so much! And if my brother Stewart were still alive, he would have celebrated his 93rd birthday tomorrow, June 25th. I miss you too, brother! I would love to hear your thoughts about what’s going on today!


Betsey and me a few years ago


My favorite bro!

 



Mountain Laurel

We have two Mountain Laurel bushes by the house. They were transplanted years ago from higher up on the mountain, where there are acres of it. For some reason, there are very few blossoms this year on the ones that are here at the house. But we have a few, and they are beautiful!




Saturday, June 20, 2020

Juneteenth

I observed Juneteeneth (the anniversary of the end of slavery in the U.S. with the long-delayed announcement of the Emancipation Proclamation in Galvestan, TX on June 19, 1865, 2 1/2 years after the Proclamation on Jan. 1, 1963) by participating via Zoom in a symposium on the life and work of the Rev. Jesse Jackson. The symposium was offered by Chicago Theological Seminary, Jackson's alma mater and mine as well (he was there about 7-8 years after I was). It featured Jackson himself (who is 78 years old), Dr. Obrey Hendricks, Rev. David Wallace, Rev Otis Moss, Jr., and Prof. Joanne Terrell of CTS. It was very interesting. Jackson mainly was remembering his earlier days as a student, and although he was at CTS later than I, I recognized many of the names he mentioned. My field work (1954-55)  was in the West Side Christian Parish and Roberts Brooks Homes Housing Project (all African-American) - in a way I was helping to lay the foundation for Jackson's later work!  Hendricks was arguing, convincingly, I feel, that Jackson is under-appreciated and worthy of study. His was an amazingly rich career: founder of Operation Breadbasket (a.k.a. Rainbow PUSH), a colleague of Martin Luther King, Jr., (he was at his side on the balcony of the Lorraine Motel in Memphis where King was assassinated), a politician (he ran for President twice (1984 and 1988)  and as someone pointed out, laid out Bernie Sanders' platform 30-35 years before Bernie (e.g., he advocated a single-payer government-run health-care system); and a successful international mediator, negotiating the release of scores of prisoners from many countries, including Syria, Iraq and Yugoslavia.

    Joanne Terrell spoke passionately about little-known women civil-rights heroes, and David Wallace and Otis Moss (Jackson's contemporaries) filled in details around Jackson's life. It was a 3-hour symposium and it went by fast. A great way to celebrate Juneteenth!



Rev. Jesse Jackson


Dr. Obrey Hendricks


Prof. Joanne Terrell

Thursday, June 18, 2020

Grandma Miller

A beautiful day for a drive! So we came to Grandma Miller's bakery in Londonderry, VT for morning glory muffins, a cake for our anniversary tomorrow (in solidarity with Maggie and Jerry), muffins for Robin and a treat for right now! I also registered online (GM has WiFI in the parking lot) for tomorrow's Juneteenth Jesse Jackson Symposium at CTS from 10am-1pm our time. Jesse Jackson is a CTS alum. Looks VERY interesting. I don't think that when we were married in 2005 that Juneteenth was widely recognized or even known in the white community. It is the day slavery actually ended in the US - because on that day in 1865 the Emancipation Proclamation finally reached Texas!


Our treat from GM

Tuesday, June 16, 2020

Some time with John

Today I went over to John and Cynthia's house and spent some time talking with them on their patio. The weather was ideal, and it was so lovely sitting there in the shade, visiting, listening to the bird songs, enjoying the setting there. A lot of our conversation was around a video they made which again features the puppet, Clover. Cynthia had made several of these for her students. Clover, I am told, has become quite a star. This is a 20-minute video in which Clover interviews John about how he became interested in nature sound recording. Turns out that decades ago, when John was a seven-year-old or so, I used a Sony reel-to-reel tape recorder at the A-frame (our Vermont summer cabin) to record the sound of frogs in a nearby pond, and then played the recording for the family both at normal speed and then at 1/4 normal speed, which sounded very spooky. John was fascinated and a seed was planted which has sprouted and grown in recent years. In the video, Clover explores this with John, and then John takes Clover on a walk into the woods where John has attached a recorder to a tree which is on a timer, so it can record both the dusk and dawn bird chorus (and other sounds). John then plays a minute of that recording and identifies the sounds - a veery, an oven bird, a woodcock, peepers, etc. It's a wonderful video! If you want to see it - go to YouTube, put in a search for "Pug Librarian" and click on "Lucky Ducky Story Hour - A Listening Walk." You will be charmed, I'm sure.

John being interviewed by Clover

This evening we had a nice session on Zoom with River Singers. Mary Cay plays the parts of a song on the piano - while we are all muted - and then she plays a recording of the song and we sing along with the recording (still muted). Part-way through the session, we break out into small groups and then we can un-mute and talk with each other. It's not the same as a live session, but it is fun and great to see others. I think that is the way it will have to be for some time to come.

What River Singers can't do for a while yet

Meanwhile, other members of our family are also making videos using puppets! Katie Tolles, Ellen's sister, for years has done a program at the Shutesbury Library called Tales and Tunes, for children in the pre-school/kindergarten age-range. That has been closed down by the pandemic, so she is doing it on-line, and they are equally charming. She sings, plays the guitar, and tells stories, assisted by a puppet, Chipsey-Chopsey, a chicken, manned by Brendon, her grandson. You can see them also - go to You Tube and search "Tales and Tunes." The most recent is #10. Here is a still shot:


Katie Tolles, Chipsey-Chopsey (at left) and a chickadee - which is what the song is about

None of this would have been created had  there been no pandemic! As they say, "It's an ill wind that blows no good" !!





Sunday, June 14, 2020

Recording session

We are in the midst of a recording session for the Guilford Church service for next Sunday, June 21st. We are in the Davis' backyard. We just recorded Hymn # 244 in our hymnal, Like A Tree Beside the Water,  and now we are doing Take Me to the Water. The hymn we did as a quartet, with me on melody, Ellen on alto, Robin on tenor and Andy on bass. Take me to the water we recorded as individuals, with me on bass and Ellen on soprano. Here is Ellen:

Ellen recording Take Me to the Water
 It is a beautiful day in Vermont today - delightfully cool and sunny. We came here after church and had a lovely lunch of quiche and tabbouleh salad, and then started recording. Andy was trying a  new setup, and it all went wrong. We did about a dozen takes before we got it all right.


Friday, June 12, 2020

Rhododendron glory

This is a special time for sure. Having the rhododendron in full-bloom has been really very special. It only lasts a few days, and  in fact, a rainstorm a couple of days ago had the effect of taking some of the glory off the blooms.  It's fading now.






Not a lot to report otherwise. We did take a trip down to see Katie and Savanna a couple of days ago, sitting at a distance on the screened porch wearing masks. Still chugging along digitizing Guilford church service tapes. About 15 or so done now. Sciatica is better. We're doing a zoom River Singers session on Tuesday evening learning about seven pieces of music. I do the spelling bee puzzle every day. We're singing 10 hymns from the Guilford hymnal, usually just before we go to bed. Life has become pretty routinized. 

One frustration: my Sovernet account has gone through another acquisition and changed to Smarter mail, and it's not as easy to access from the phone as it was before. Similarly, blogspot.com has changed their format and it's not as user-friendly. Small potatoes compared to what's going on right now in the world.

Oh, a little later this afternoon, I'm going to be in a zoom session with Shirley's nephew Jim Harris and his sister Patty. I haven't seen Patty for decades. They want to talk about the Harris family. Very interesting!




Tuesday, June 9, 2020

Powerful service

This afternoon, we listened on the radio to the entire "home-going" service for George Floyd, broadcast from Fountain of Praise Church, Houston, TX.  It was powerful and inspiring. We loved the choir rendition of Richard Smallwood's Total Praise, at the beginning as people were gathering. We learned it from Kathy Bullock years ago.  There was some great black preaching - especially Rev. Al Sharpton, who just let loose without restraint. There is nothing like that in the white churches, more's the pity. I wish everyone in the country could hear this service!



George Floyd and Rev. Al Sharpton



Fountain of Praise Church, Houston, TX
If my life had a fraction of the impact for good on the world that George Floyd's life and death have already had, I would be happy.


Monday, June 8, 2020

Lots of things

So, let me go back in time from today. This morning, we visited Winnie Vogt at Bradley House. I have known Winnie for about 47 years, and she is a long-time member of the Dummerston Church. She has been living at Bradley House for a few years, and this is a difficult time for her because of the restrictions created by the pandemic and also the turmoil in  the country. She has a very compassionate heart and a strong social conscience, and she is deeply concerned about the police brutality evident in the news, the cluelessness of the President, and she has few if any with whom to talk about it all.  So she was due a visit. We couldn't go in, but we could sit by the door on the back porch and talk through a screen door, with Winnie sitting about 8 feet away. We had a good visit which I think did her soul some good, and we sang a hymn for her before we left.

Winnie Vogt through the screen door

Yesterday, we attended the Guilford virtual service online and the Zoom coffee hour afterward. Another fine service! It had a special feature for me - Peter Amidon incorporated a recording I had sent him of me singing Were You There? - a recording made about 30 years ago which I had recently digitized. I wish I could add audio files to this blog!  A montage of pictures of the current turmoil in the nation accompanied the singing. After church, Ellen was busy preparing food for a meal that the Guilford Church was serving at the homeless shelter. We also participated in a vigil at St. Michael's Episcopal Church -something important is happening in our country!

The Vigil on Sunday from my vantage-point

Saturday, I went to the Guilford Church to be videoed making presentations of the Shirley Harris Crockett Award to four persons. That video will be incorporated into the June 14th service. Terry Sylvester received the award to support her taking a course in painting icons. Terry spent a year or more in Moldova a while back, and it is prominently a Russian Orthodox nation, and since she is an artist, she was enchanted by icons. An orthodox church in New York State near her home town is offering the course. The other three recipients are our music ministry team, Peter Amidon, Andy Davis and Patty Meyer. They have been doing yoeman service during the pandemic. Each received a certificate and a pot of daisies, Shirley's favorite flower. We made the video of the presentation by the garden at the church where daisies are growing also.

Our rhododendron bush (which is about the size of the house now!)  is at its prime in blossoms.  What a sight!

Our rhododendron bushes

The other night, I was watching a Rick Steves program on PBS about the town of Assisi, home of St.Francis. Just for fun I took pictures of the TV, and I was amazed at how well they came out!




Last week we made another visit to the Feinlands and caught up with them. They are doing well, it would seem. Max still plans to actually go to Boulder - Univ. of Colorado plans some actual classes in addition to online learning. Ben will be mostly online this fall, I guess.


Julie,  Ben, Max and Tamar (not a good photo but it's all I have)

I've digitized about a dozen GCC services from the box of 1997 cassette tapes. Chugging along! 

We have been enjoying rhubarb! Ellen has made rhubarb pie, crisp, and custard.



                                                              Rhubarb pie and custard - YUM!


Our new pastor at GCC!

We are now free to talk about our new pastor at the Guilford Community Church. Her name is Elisa Lucozzi, and she is currently pastor of the United Community Church of St. Johnsbury, VT. In addition to her pastoral experience she has had 20+  years working as a dean of students at Lesley College in Boston, MA and has also been an advocate for victims of sexual and domestic abuse. Her M.Div. is from Andover-Newton Theological Seminary. The Search Committee was drawn to her presence, her vitality, her spiritual commitment, her concern for social justice and the way she related to each member of the committee. She will move to the area in August, and her first Sunday will be September 6th. She and our present pastor, Lise Sparrow, will serve concurrently for the month of September, while Lise "shows her the ropes." Lise will then attain her well-deserved retirement in October.

Elisa led the "virtual service" on May 24th. You can watch it - go to YouTube, search "Guilford Community Church" and scroll down to May 24, 2020. Ellen and I led the opening hymn and our picture is what you see on the "cover" of the video.

A warm welcome Elisa and to her spouse, Roseann!


Roseann (left) and Elisa giving the children's story on May 24th

The Rev. Elisa Lucozzi leading the service on Zoom, May 24th.


Saturday, June 6, 2020

Cassette to MP3

I've embarked in earnest on a new project, inspired by the acquisition of a new "toy" - a cassette player that has a USB port where you can put in a thumb drive and play a cassette tape, and an MP3 file is created on the thumb drive from the cassette. I found this player in the Hammacher-Schlemmer catalog, and it was only $49, so I ordered it. The big advantage over using this instead of the old cassette player and Garage Band on the computer is that I can put in a tape of a Guilford service, start the tape and go off and do something else. When it comes to the end of side A, it just stops. Then when I get a chance, I can flip the cassette and start it up again. That time, I have to stay nearby and hear when the service ends, and turn off the cassette player. But otherwise, I don't have to sit there and watch over it, which I had to do using Garage Band. I can start a tape at night, before going to bed, for example, and finish it the next morning. Or just do it at random times during the day. So I have started to convert all the tapes from 1997, Shirley's and my last year as ministers at the Guilford Community Church. I can actually see my way now through all the tapes - over 400 of them! - because I don't have to sit there for an hour or more with each tape. I've already done five tapes in two days. If I could average 2 a day, I could be done in seven months - by the end of the year. But it's exciting to think I can at least be through 1997 in about a month or so. That would in itself be a wonderful archive to hand on to the church.

Getting the MP3 file onto the thumb drive is not the end of the job, however. I have to download that file on to my laptop that that I can properly label it with the date of the service and get it into an iTunes folder. From there I can burn a playable CD. I haven't decided exactly in what form to pass these files on to the church - CDs? Archival DVDs?  Thumb drive? I don't need to resolve that just yet. It is enough to make the conversion, and have each file labeled and in iTunes. I am also making a printable file of a brief summary of each service, as a kind of index. That summary will include information on the basic theme of the sermon and the children's story, names of participants in the service and list the special music.


The new cassette to MP3 converter
The box of cassettes for 1997





Thursday, June 4, 2020

Stewart Letter #21

Just as a reminder: I'm observing the 75th anniversary of my older brother, Stewart's, military service in WW2 by posting annotated copies of his letters to his mom and dad in the years around 1945. I'm up to Letter #21, written to his dad, who was stationed in France as a chaplain in the U.S. Army at that time, May 30, 1945. Since his previous, March 25th letter (#20), Stewart had been moved from Lincoln, NE,  to a new unit in the A.S.T.R.P.  (Army Specialized Training Reserve Program) at Brookings, SD. See the letter below for details.

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Letter #21

Ch.(Capt.) Barney C. Crockett                     Pvt. Stewart C. Crockett
1314 Engrs.  A.P.O. 513______                   ASN 17183138__Co.B_ASTRP   
c/o  P.M.  New York, N.Y._____                   Box 217, Brookings, S. Dak[1]
                                                                                    30 May   45
Dear Dad,

I have finally decided to stay in the A.S.T.R.P.  When I was at the Lincoln Air Base Hospital, I felt very bitter, because I had missed finishing the second term just because the doctor at student health thought that I had gonorrhea.[2]  And then when I had to stay there for two weeks because they seemed to forget about me for a week, I was very disturbed. Not until I talked to the commandant here, Captain Olson, did I have any argument against leaving. He said that if he were my father, he would not give his consent for my release. Then after I had sent the release papers home to mother, and she had sent them back, Sergeant Treacy (?) talked to me about the choices I would have in basic if I quit now. After thinking it all over, I decided to stay. 

This post is very different from Lincoln. The barracks are located in a men's dormitory, with two to a room, two latrines to a floor, and innerspring mattresses. My roommate is a Methodist Chaplain's son who formerly lived in Pittsburg but now makes his home in Colorado Springs, south of Denver. We have separate closets and separate drawers for everything.[3] I believe also that I shall be able to learn something even though I am taking the second term over again. However, I would have liked to go to Lansing, Michigan, for a third term with my buddies from Lincoln.

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I can understand the analytical geometry much better now, and also the electricity in physics.[4]  We do quite a bit of homework in all our classes, too, and that is something which we didn't do at Lincoln.  We also write themes in English regularly, while we had to write only one or two during the whole term at Nebraska. Our P.T.  here is Monday, Wednesday, Friday, which is regular compared to our schedule at  Lincoln. Also we have two hours of military training three times a week, while at Lincoln, we had only three hours on Saturday afternoon.  We are off at 1200 Saturday here.[5]
             I was home for 60 hours at the end of April. The unit at Lincoln was closed, and we could not leave until the Monday after the end of classes. On Monday afternoon, we carried one hundred double-decker beds with pillows and mattresses over three blocks to the Nebraska field-house, because they had been sold to the university earlier in the day. I was home also last weekend for a day. I hitchhiked from here through Mankato, and made it in nine hours. That is very good, considering that the distance is 220 miles, and that I only made 30 of them during the first three hours.
            I am feeling well,[6]  and looking forward to the end of the term, when I can be home for two weeks, and also because I am curious to see what basic training is like.

                                                                        Your son,  Stewart







[1] Quite a bit has happened since Letter #20, dated March 25th.  Stewart was in the hospital twice, causing him to miss a lot of classes, and on top of that, his unit at Lincoln was closed at the end of the second term and sent to Lansing, MI for a third term. But because of his hospitalizations, Stewart was not able to complete the second term, and thus could not go to Lansing for a third term. He was separated from his unit and sent to Brookings, S.D., and South Dakota State University, where another unit was starting the second term, which he then repeated. As he indicates in this letter, all this upset him very much, and he considered pretty seriously leaving the A.S.T.R.P. But he was eventually persuaded to stay. In the memoir I published back in 2007 (Remembering With My Brother Stewart), based on tapes of long conversations we had, Stewart describes these hospitalizations.
"Stewart: While I was there (at Lincoln) I was hospitalized twice, and when they sent us to a hospital, it was at the Lincoln Army Air Base, outside of town. The first time, I had "acute nasal pharyngitis."[1] I was just plugging along and the commanding officer decided I was too sick and needed attention, so they sent me out there.
Larry: What were the symptoms?
Stewart: It was like a sore throat. But it was the pharynx, not the larynx. I remember the way they treated it then, they would take a canister that had a hole in the bottom, with an attached rubber hose; you would fill that with warm salt water and get over a tub and spray that salt water against the back of your throat several times a day--as hot as you could stand it. That was the basic treatment. And it worked! It wasn't quite the same as gargling. You would spray it in and it would run out of your mouth."
[2] In the above-mentioned book, Stewart describes this in detail also, but it's so personal that I will not duplicate that here. Suffice it to say, the army doctors acted pretty stupidly before they realized their error.
[3] This is a significant  improvement over Lincoln. There, the unit was housed in the newly constructed  Love Memorial Library, which of course was never intended to be used as a dormitory. Scores of bunks had been set up in a large reading room, there was no privacy, virtually no room for personal belongings and very limited toilet facilities.
[4] Stewart is now commenting on new courses he is taking at South Dakota State University.
[5] It seems pretty clear that Stewart is happier with the situation at Brookings than he was at Lincoln.
[6] Unfortunately, Stewart got pneumonia before the term was over!

The campus of SDSU

Witnessing

Recently we participated in a demonstration in support of George Floyd, and protesting widespread police brutality against persons of color in our society,  which took place in Brattleboro. The event took place on the main street of Brattleboro, with every person we saw wearing a mask, and spread out 6 feet apart all along both sides of the street. We later learned that about 1000 people were involved according to the local police department’s count. Scott Couper, the pastor of  Centre Congregational Church on Main Street in Brattleboro, very kindly put out a bench from the church for me to sit on right on the curb. There were several clergy nearby there in front of the church. It felt good to be part of a live event and not just a face in a square on our computer screen.

Doing our part
Across the street


Rev. Scott Couper

Monday, June 1, 2020

The 1793 Yellow Fever Plague in Philadelphia

I've been reading John Harvey Powell's book, Bring Out Your Dead, which is a vivid account of the Yellow Fever Plague in Philadelphia in 1793. It makes the Covid-19 pandemic look pretty tame by comparison, but there are also fascinating parallels. Philadelphia was the nation's capital at that time, so this was a big deal. The disease was horrible. The patient  turned yellow, vomited putrid, black bile, had unrelenting diarrhea, suffered terribly before dying. Medical science at that time was pre-germ theory, and no one knew that mosquitoes were transmitting the disease. Doctors disagreed vehemently on how a patient should be treated. Some, like Benjamin Rush, urged aggressive purges of the stomach and extreme blood-letting. Others favored herbal teas and fresh air! Nothing worked very well and the death rate was high. Scores died every day and fear gripped the population. It was widely believed that to touch or even be near someone with the disease would cause you to get it, so even spouses and children were literally abandoned and left to die alone. Hundreds died in the streets. No one wanted to handle the corpses. African-Americans (both slaves and freemen) were believed by whites to be immune to the disease (they weren't), so they were ordered to dispose of corpses. It's an amazing story that seems to be largely forgotten in today's discussions. You hear a lot about the 1918 flu epidemic, but nothing about 1793. I got the book through the Internet Archive. It isn't a delightful read - it's pretty grim - but it is very interesting. The author, by the way, was a personal friend of Ellen's father, Frederick Tolles. That is how I came to be aware of this book.

The opening pages of Bring Out Your Dead

Old Sympathy cards

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What a great time to finally do some long-procrastinated tasks! For years I have meant to go through a box of sympathy cards that I received when Shirley died in 1998. I read them when I got them, of course, and had replied to many of them that had notes (and had written "reply sent," with a date, on the envelope), and at some point I had alphabetized them (by first letter of last name of sender) and had put them in a shoebox, not able to throw them out. And thus they have sat on a shelf for over 20 years! There are well over 100 cards altogether - maybe close to 200.  

I called John and asked if he was interested in them. I also wondered if maybe Katie would be interested - they would give her a fuller perspective on her grandmother. John said he was not particularly interested in generic cards, but he would be interested in those that said something specific about his mom. So I have gone through them all and selected about 30 which I think John would be interested in. And very possibly Katie also. I will make a packet of them for John and he can pass it on to Katie.

In the process of doing this, I realized I was creating sort of a case study in  "the art of sending a sympathy card."  What constitutes a "good" sympathy card, and what words are really meaningful, and have stood the test of time?  I would say that in general, the more time and care that goes into a card, the better. I find I am appreciating home-made cards, and cards that were inherently beautiful. I have now saved a couple of dozen card covers that I can use to make a new card by gluing the cover on to card stock and writing a personal note inside. Cards that are generic both in art and in expressions of sympathy (e.g., "Shirley was a wonderful person and she will be missed") are appreciated, but not memorable. In general, I would say that taking the time to make a card special, both visually, and in its message (a specific memory, a remembered trait, etc.) is to the good. 

Here are some examples:

This is what I consider a "generic" card. It is like hundreds of others. Over 80% of the cards I received fell into this category. Sometimes a very personal note, penned inside, redeemed the card. But in most cases, the  note was generic too. I don't want to give the impression that I didn't appreciate being remembered. Sending a generic card usually is better than nothing. But I think it is worth taking the time to make it a bit special.


 Here are some examples of what I liked visually:

This card was designed by a friend in the Guilford church. I like the simplicity of it.

I've always like stained glass

I like this floral scene

I am always attracted to close-ups of flowers, which I find to be amazing in their beauty

This could be a scene right on our own land
An artist friend created this water-color cover


I like the joy in this one



This was a hand-made card from a young woman in her twenties at the time of Shirley's death who had been a pre-teen in the church. I liked the way the word "voice" on the cover is then echoed in her note.


This was from someone who had been on an organ study tour in Europe with Shirley and me the previous summer, so we did not know her well, but she took the time to carefully print this note in a tiny, careful hand.


And here is the exception that proves the rule:


This card and note was very touching and authentic in its stark simplicity