Tuesday, June 25, 2019

Another letter (#4) from Stewart to his dad in 1944

Here is Letter #4, written just six days after Stewart's 17th birthday (June 25, 1944), almost exactly 75 years ago today. It is a remarkable letter, and as I mention in the notes, written by a remarkably mature 17-year-old. 

Stewart graduated from Marshall High School on June 15, 1944 (see note under caption below), and I'm going to append his Commencement Program here:


This is an impressive program. One of the student speakers, John Wagner, was Stewart's best friend. He spoke on the topic, "Music as an Expression of the Emotions." I started seventh grade at Marshall the fall of 1944, so I just missed overlapping with my brother. I had only seventh and eighth grade there, and that was interrupted when my mother and I moved to Kentucky to be with dad while he was stationed at Camp Breckenridge, KY. My schooling during the 1945-46 school year  was sort of a mess - Marshall, Henderson, KY, Morganfield, KY, then back to Marshall! Then we moved to Anamosa, IA where I entered high school.
Note: Stewart seems to have been confused about the date of his graduation.  I quoted him earlier that it was "June 13th" but it was "June 15th."




                                                                                                          July 1, 1944



Dear Dad,



After saying goodbye to you[i] I waited at the gate until Hiawatha left. I then had quite a wait, because my train was about ten minutes late in leaving, leaving at 8:45 instead of 8:35. The train arrived in Loretto about 10:05. It stopped at several places for some time, otherwise it would not have taken so long, as it is only 23 miles from Minneapolis by rail. It then took me about twenty minutes to walk to Ihduhapi, about two miles.[ii]



The good weather we had enjoyed the first few days continued the last few, although it rained just as hard at Ihduhapi  as it did in Mnneapolis on Thursday night. We had a nice banquet on Friday night. Afterward, Ross Snyder, Julias Keiser, Kendrick Strong, Royal Gilman and Dr. Samuel Strong from Macalester College[iii] participated in a skit entitled Races of Mankind, in which  they showed the petty differences between men living in different nations of this planet which are made into important differences by men like Hitler, and also by many  in this country.



The war to some is progressing at an unheard of speed. But three top military leaders just said that there is a long road ahead in he fight for complete victory. We didn't have a strong base in France to start with in this war, and consequently it is taking longer, more casualties are being suffered on the fronts, the war is being fought on more fronts. and the civilian population is being allowed to have the fact of total war settle upon their consciousness. I will not say that they are being affected more adversely by war conditions, for comparison of this war with the last is unfair, considering  the greater amount of luxuries we had immediately prior to this war, and luxuries are bound to go when war comes, so we have lost a greater number of things, but even so, it has not touched as deeply. Price control has helped to some extent, and rationing has helped to distribute scarce goods more fairly than otherwise would have been done.[iv]


Because I do not think that the war with both Germany and Japan will be over before late in 1945, I want to get into a training program now.  But however, on the the other hand, I would rather enlist in a branch where I would be released within six months after the war's end. Even training for the Chaplain's Corps would be distasteful to me simply because it would entail such a long time in the Navy.  However, on the other hand, going to C.T.S. as a civilian before the war's end does not appeal to me either because that would mean deferment, and I believe that a short term in the armed forces would be a rare experience, one to be enjoyed, and one that cannot  be had by every person in the course of his life.[v]

                                                                                     Your loving son, Stewart





[i] This must refer to the short visit dad had at home on his way from Fort Lewis to Washington, D.C., and then on to England, and ultimately France. Stewart and dad must have left for the train station together, dad's train left first (named the Hiawatha) and then Stewart caught one to go to Camp Ihduhapi. 
[ii]  Camp Ihduhapi was a YMCA Camp located in suburban Minneapolis. It was founded about 1930 and is still in operation today. It isn't clear whether Stewart  was just starting camp, or was returning, but since this letter was written on a Saturday, and a few days have gone by since Stewart left dad, I'm guessing that he had been at camp, came home for the one day dad was able to be there, and then returned to camp late that night. That way he would know exactly where to go to his cabin, etc.
[iii] I immediately recognized one name out of this list: Ross Snyder, who was one of my professors at CTS, some 10-11 years later. I have also indentified Dr. Samuel M. Strong, who was a prominent sociologist at Macalester, and just before this camp was held, had published, "Observation on the Possibility of Attitude Modification: A Case of Nationality and Racial Group Interrelationships in Wartime," Social Forces, XXII/3 (March 1944). This article is a detailed description of a 3-day Festival of Nations held in St. Paul in 1943, which brought together people from almost 40 countries, including Germany and Italy, with whom the U.S. was at war. Every nation had a booth devoted to its culture, women from every nation prepared and served "favorite dishes" of that nation, there were performances of singing and dancing, thousands of people attended, etc.  It was Strong's conviction that this Festival  had a decisive impact on people's attitudes toward others they might otherwise have looked at with prejudice.  I looked around at other things Strong wrote, and I'll have to say, he was a very progressive thinker for his time.  Indeed, the theme of this skit is pretty progressive.
[iv] This is a pretty darned astute assessment of the war and its impact for a just-turned-seventeen-year-old!
[v] This paragraph reveals that Stewart was at least entertaining the idea of going to CTS and becoming a Navy chaplain! News to me! I wonder if dad had encouraged that idea, and if they might have even discussed it during their brief time together? It also reveals that he was eager for military service, but in that respect he was probably typical of the men of his age at that time.  But this letter also suggests that Stewart was remarkably mature for his age.

Monday, June 24, 2019

Sunday & Monday

Yesterday morning I went to church, then did a little grocery shopping, then met Ellen and Max at Mountain Days, finished off the uneaten portions of their lunches (chicken tenders and quesadillas), came back to the condo, worked on "Spelling Bee," watched part of a movie with E&M (Ocean 11 - 2001), had supper, watched end of Deepwater Horizon movie - 2016 (about the  2010 oil gusher in the Gulf),  got caught up in reading my blogs from 2010 (my extensive reflections on that Gulf oil gusher), which got me hooked on reading old blogs generally!

Today (Monday, the 24th) would have been Betsey's 61st birthday, and tomorrow (the 25th) would have been Stewart's 92nd! Miss you both so much!

Max is in a day camp in Jackson this week. Jenny took him this morning and brought him back. We'll be picking him up some days this week.  I slept late this morning, and stayed home when Ellen walked over to the house to do some work. I cleaned up, mopped the floor, took out trash, did errands (library, pharmacy, post office, store), did some research for Paul on the computer, went to the house and worked a bit sweeping up and putting hardware on Anderson windows, went to store again with Ellen (she needed my wallet), came back to condo, had supper, watched Men in Black movie (the original one-1997) with Max (all new to me), etc. (Those are the highlights!)  Whew! Sort of a crazy couple of days! I have a feeling it's going to be that kind of week.

One little slice of Mountain Days in Alpine

Saturday, June 22, 2019

Letter #3

Here is Letter #3 in the Stewart series:
 


                                                                                                May 10, 1944

Dear Dad,

These sudden changes and  turns of events are keeping me on the jump as if it weren't enough that I will  graduate "before you can say Jack Robinson" and that the biggest invasion from the sea in history is imminent. But, however, a vague form is beginning to disentangle itself from the haze. Since your plans are uncertain and mine must be made definite soon, Mother and I think that I should decide to stay here, since surely I can find a place to stay, for we have many friends.[i]

 My job has given me valuable help in another way other than financial and intellectual: it has helped me to see more clearly the high value of chemistry. Since all entering engineering courses at the U must start in June, I would not be able to work full-time this summer, and I will need both the extra money and a rest from academic duties. 

Consequently, I shall register for a major in chemistry.[ii]

The first six weeks of this semester were unmarked for me until yesterday, because I was absent on the day report cards were issued. This is how they stack up:

                                    Per  1                                    Per. 2
English                          B                                          A
Mod. Prob.                     B                                         B
Trig.                               B                                         C
Physics                          A -                                       B -

Modern Problems and Trigonometry were both harder this semester than before. The C in Trig. was a mark which Miss Cockburn did not realize was so low, for she did not remember that the tests on which I received 30 and 38 were immediately after I was absent for several days and I was completely at a loss as how to solve the problems.  The second six weeks in Physics, we began electricity, and for one who is not very well acquainted, that is a hard subject.

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Perhaps you can remember some of the commencements which you saw. The highest honor cards awarded are for 15 points. Since a straight A average equals 3.0 for one semester, and there are six semesters in senior high school, you can see that it is an honor. If I can earn an A in both English and Physics the last six weeks and, of course, get at least B's in the other two (but I'll try for A's), I will receive a 15 point honor card.[iii]

I must close this letter now but first, isn't it a coincidence that your birthday falls on Mother's Day this year. It probably makes each of you feel more related. I must hurry and go to choir practice now, and then I shall do some school work and go to bed. I have to keep my class schedule in mind all the time, but a certain amount of regimentation is a good thing for those unused to it.

Wishing you a very happy birthday, and hoping that we will see each other again soon.
                                                                                    Lovingly,   Stewart

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[i] This opening paragraph is bewildering. Clearly, there has been some communication between Stewart and dad that we don't have which involves some kind of plan to meet, or something. The most bewildering part is the reference to friends where he could stay. If he is saying "here" - i.e., Minneapolis - why would he need a place to stay?  He's at home!
[ii] This implies that Stewart was considering a major in Engineering, but if he did that, he would have to start classes in the summer, work part-time and lose income. So Chemistry instead. I hadn't realized before that he was considering a career in science.
[iii] I think the assumption behind all this is that he had been getting straight A's prior to this semester. He had to explain the low grades at the beginning of the semester and also reassure dad that he could still pull out an honor card.

Friday, June 21, 2019

Finishing touches

After supper this evening we went over to the new house to take Paul his supper and see what he has done. He has been working on hanging doors, putting in shelving and trim. I selected some areas where, if you frame the photo right, it looks pretty finished. These photos will give you a taste of what the house is going to be like.

This is the stairwell and pantry door, all nicely trimmed
This is the sink area of the powder room inside the front door
This is the master bath showing the newly installed glass shower doors
This is one section of the concrete counter-top which Paul made himself

Final soccer day

Today is the last day for the British Soccer camp. Featured today were country flags, and Ellen and Max made a chocolate sheet cake decorated like the Irish flag. There was competition for the smallest & largest flag, and for the baked goods flags, but they gave priority to cakes that were baked without parental help (Max only helped with the sprinkles), and one of the girls won. Max was disappointed not to win, but later, when they actually ate the cakes, our cake was very popular. Most of our (very large) cake got eaten (unlike most of the others). So while there was no formal competition, I think we were at least strong contenders in that category. 

All that was left

Max also participated in the "tell a joke" competition. His joke:  Knock-knock! Who's there? Interrupting cow! Interrup ........ Mooo!  

He didn't win that competition either.


It is quite chilly this morning - the car thermometer registered 37 degrees coming to camp! But the sun is strong, and with a jacket, it's fine. BUT - later I think that for the climax of the camp they'll bring in fire engines that spray the kids with the water hoses. Brrrrrr!

Max with Coach Josh

Coach Josh and Coach Niall address the troops

Water fight!

Getting doused!

I resolved a car question this morning. I called Brattleboro Subaru this morning and asked about the appointment I have there on July 29th to have work done on the valve springs - which is a Subaru recall and is done free of charge. My thinking was that doing that work and fixing the timing chain case oil leak involved very similar labor and might save me money. I was right. The service rep said it absolutely made sense to wait, and that it shouldn't be a problem if we kept the oil level up, which we are accustomed to doing anyway. So that is now the plan - we won't invest any more money in this car, hope it gets us home ok and have that  recall work done and then look into possibly getting a new car, or waiting until next June when we would have our next inspection and deciding then whether to buy a new car or put in a new catalytic converter.  Time will tell whether that's a good plan, but at least it's a plan!

This weekend we are going to begin packing and moving in earnest. O boy!

One last photo: Across the street from where we turned in to the soccer camp was this restaurant. We thought - only in Wyoming!

We haven't tried it!

Thursday, June 20, 2019

Down time

Pretty quiet today - we took Max to soccer, came home, no internet, so Max played Solitaire and I rested. Very cool, breezy and windy today. Talked with John and learned it is warm, muggy and rainy in Vermont. Have to admit I'm glad we're here not there as far as weather is concerned!

Internet service at the condo has been turned off and switched to the new house. Not sure if that is permanent. We do shift into moving mode pretty soon, but not quite yet!


Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Happy Anniversary Day

Today was Ellen's  and my 14th wedding anniversary! It turned out to be quite a day.

The first thing that happened was that the salesman from Teton Motors Subaru finally called with a figure on what they would give us for our Impreza as a trade-in. $2200. But that was not the biggest news - they sold the car we were interested in!  I would have thought that he might have called me first before they sold it, to see if we were serious. But anyway, that all sort of pushed me over into waiting to buy a new car until we're back in Vermont. But it means we'll have to get that timer case gasket fixed.

We took Max to British soccer, and today was "Wacky Wednesday." Which means that everyone was encouraged to come wearing crazy costumes. The staff all dressed up and maybe a dozen or so of the kids did. Max did not. There were a few really creative costumes but skirts and wigs figured prominently.

Those in costumes lined up for "judging"
After the opening proceedings were over and Max had settled into the routine for the morning, Ellen and I walked to the Wagon Wheel restaurant for an "anniversary breakfast." It was Ellen's first breakfast, but my second one. Ellen got her favorite - sausage gravy on homefries - and pronounced them excellent. It's a pretty decent little cafe.

Wagon Wheel Cafe in Thayne
 When we got back to the soccer field, I spent a little time in the library checking email, and then we came home. Later, I ended up going with Max to the Alpine Library, where they were showing a film for kids - Mary Poppins Returns  - which freed Ellen to go to the house and put in some time helping Paul. Then after the film, we came back to the condo and by about 6:00pm everyone had re-gathered there and we all went to Melvins for an anniversary supper treat. It was a perfect evening for Melvins - really a lovely evening in a great setting.

Melvin's Brew Pub
The deck at Melvin's overlooks the Palisades Reservoir. Paul and Jenny's new house is on the opposite shore just a but to the right of the frame.

Ellen and Max coming back from exploring the shore

Later, back at the condo, we watched Spike Lee's BlackkKlansman.

The new condo owner is coming tomorrow to do an "inspection" - not sure why. Everyone is sort of "tidying up" a bit.